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First Dates: What Not To Do, In Order To Catch The Attention Of Women. - An Excellent Guide To Learn More
Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I often get questions about how to attract women, or what to do in order to attract women.
A common concern that guys have is how to steer clear of making those critical mistakes on the first date that prevents ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship).
I am going to discuss some of them in this post.
Well, there are several mistakes a guy can make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here. The biggest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Talking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not creating sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is all about future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk all about themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that attempting to impress the girl that he is an excellent catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he is not interested in her and doesn't listen to what she wants to say. A bad relationship prospect.
One other way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be interested in the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They're both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.
If you don't know what I am talking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is keen on you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, and so on, and all kinds of other interesting things.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls will be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls enjoy being amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. An origin of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.
That is all we have room to talk about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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